Learnit Training
Conversation Techniques Course
  • Learn to use the right techniques to achieve your conversational goal
  • Get and keep control in a conversation and learn how to steer a conversation
  • Become aware of your own qualities and pitfalls and what effect this has on the course of a conversation
  • Learn to listen carefully to your interlocutor, with an eye for his frame of reference
  • Recognise resistance in yourself and others and learn how to deal with it

You apply conversation techniques in order to communicate as effectively as possible with your conversation partner. It seems like a paradox, but by connecting well with the other person you are better able to steer the conversation in the direction you want. In our two-day training you learn to consciously determine your strategy and conversation techniques to achieve your goals, making conversations more pleasant, more effective and more efficient.

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"It is an excellent training with many practical assignments. You get a lot of handles on how to steer a conversation in the best possible way." - Rating: 10.0

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Conversation Techniques Course

Would you like to improve your general conversation technique so that you become more proficient in conducting and directing conversations? Whereas our training course Communicative Skills is much more about your own way of communicating and expressing yourself, conversational techniques are about using your way of communicating to be able to connect with your conversation partner. It seems like a paradox, but by connecting well with the other person, you are better able to steer the conversation in the direction you want.

The common thread is the iceberg theory: under water and above water. If we want to show effective behaviour above water, it is important to know how that behaviour comes about under water (or not). What is going on under water that prevents us from showing certain behaviour above water?

In the training on Conversation Techniques you learn to become aware of your own qualities and pitfalls and what effect these have on the course of a conversation. You learn to clearly see the goal of a conversation, so you can consciously determine your strategy and conversation techniques to achieve this goal. By sharpening your skills, your conversations will be more pleasant, effective and efficient.

Topics

During the training the following topics, among others, will be discussed:

  • Refresher on the way we communicate:

    How does the communication process work and what pitfalls are lurking?

  • Verbal, non-verbal and paralingual communication:

    What do you say literally, what do you do with your body, how does your voice sound and what effect does this have on a conversation?

  • The Iceberg Theory:

    Concrete observable behaviour (visible to everyone) lies above the water surface. How this behaviour comes about and what motives and drives play a role in it lie below the surface and are not directly observable

  • Steering a (goal-oriented) conversation: goal, technique and strategy:

    In every conversation, you pursue a goal, for example giving bad news, giving feedback or giving your opinion. To achieve this goal, you map out a strategy and use techniques. Which strategy and which techniques will best help you achieve this goal?

  • Listening and conversation skills:

    For example: attentive posture, summarising, questioning, reflecting on feelings

  • From message to process: interaction during a conversation:

    Insight into communication on a content and relationship level

  • Connecting with your interlocutor:

    Being attentive and sensitive to the other person's world of experience and frame of reference

  • Dealing with emotions and resistance:

    Recognising resistance in yourself and others and how to deal with it

Results

  • You are aware of your own qualities and pitfalls and what effect this has on the course of a conversation;
  • You can use the right techniques to achieve your goal;
  • You are able to regain and maintain control in the conversation and know how to steer a conversation;
  • You know how to recognise your own resistance and that of others and how to deal with it, and
  • You listen carefully to your interlocutor and have an eye for their frame of reference, so that misunderstandings can be avoided.

Target group

This training is ideally suited if you have many conversations and would like to sharpen your skills to make these conversations more pleasant, effective and efficient. Do you recognise yourself in one or more of the points below?

  • You would like to improve your questioning techniques to get more information out of a conversation
  • You want to create space in a conversation to listen to each other's expectations or interests
  • You would like to have more insight into the process of mutual influence during a conversation (communication on content and relational level)
  • You would like to learn which techniques you can best use for a specific conversation purpose (bringing bad news, confrontation, making a proposal, giving feedback or criticism etc.).
  • You want to prevent a conversation from being derailed by high emotions
  • You want to learn to listen to the other person better

Of course, this list is not exhaustive: after all, everyone is different. What do you want to pay attention to within the theme of conversation techniques?

Working method

  • Customisation is our focus: through a telephone intake interview, the trainer makes an inventory of your personal learning goals. On this basis, the definitive programme of the training course is determined.
  • We believe a safe training atmosphere is important, as you should feel comfortable experimenting with new knowledge and skills.
  • We strongly believe in doing and experiencing, rather than talking about the content of trainings, which is why all our trainings are active in nature.
  • In order to guarantee the quality of the training, we apply a maximum group size of eight participants, so that we can guarantee the learning effect and efficiency.

Language

The training is provided in Dutch as standard. The trainer has a good command of the English language. Use can be made of course material in English. With a minimum of three participants, the training can also be provided entirely in English.

Investment

Prices mentioned are per person, including course material. Lunch is included in the on-site training.

On location Online
Duration 2 days 4 sessions of three hours
Price per day, excluding VAT € 475,- € 390,-
Total, incl. VAT € 1149,50 € 943,80

Certificate

After completion of the training, a Learnit certificate is issued as proof of participation.


Online

We also organise this training online. For this we use Webbex or Zoom. Login with Skype is also possible. On request, this training can also be organised with Microsoft Teams.

The training lasts 4 sessions of 3 hours, spread over 4 weeks.

  • You can participate again free of charge up to one year after the training.
  • For an additional catering fee, you can also participate in a classroom training.

References

The course Conversation Techniques was assessed with an average of 8.5.

"Nice trainer. Role plays were very instructive." - Rating: 7.8

N. Aghris, Woonstad Rotterdam - Interview techniques

"It is an excellent training with many practical assignments. You get a lot of handles on how to steer a conversation in the best possible way." - Rating: 10.0

H. vom Hofe, PCBO - Conversation techniques

"The Learni training has made me particularly aware of the differences between good and less good ways of communicating and how this leads to behavioural change. This has a positive influence and consequence on customer friendliness, service to others and ultimately on overall cooperation and relationship improvement." - Rating: 7.4

M.J.H. van de Wetering, Advaita Yoga Centre - Conversation techniques

"Instructive and interesting training, in which you learn how to start a conversation with e.g. bad news. - Rating: 8.2

H.J. Kroon. DZB Leiden - Interview techniques

"Very nice practical training, in which there was a lot of room to practice our own case. Saar listened very well, has an open attitude, gave very good feedback and valuable tips that we could put to work immediately. Also created a nice open atmosphere. Top! Use of videos also very valuable." - Rating: 9.0

Marion Bekebrede, Cygnific B.V. - Interview techniques

"I found it a pleasant lesson, instructive and at a good pace. The subjects we requested were given sufficient attention and time was taken for them. I also liked the trainer, who calmly explained the subjects that we wanted to discuss. Thanks Marco Schmidt Work supervisor Reintegration". - Rating: 7.9

Marco Schmidt, DZB Leiden - Interview techniques

"The quality of the training was excellent, with a lot of attention for your own learning goals. The trainer is very knowledgeable. Due to the many practical exercises and direct feedback using video recordings, I learned a lot in two days. Highly recommended for anyone who wants to improve their conversation techniques." - Rating: 9.0

P. Gerits, Directorate-General for Public Works and Water Management Major Projects and Maintenance - Interview techniques

"It is an instructive training. The information you get fits you as a person. During the lesson, this is further sharpened to what you need. After the training you become more aware of what you are doing and of what is being said during a conversation." - Rating: 8.4

A. Kool, Luba Personele Diensten - Interview techniques

"The training gives you insight into your own communication style. Because of the group dynamics, you also learn things from others, which is very pleasant. Through role-playing, you practise situations that previously frustrated you. With the knowledge from this training you enter conversations more confidently." - Rating: 8.8

S. Berswerda - Interview techniques

"The training is highly recommended. You can indicate your learning goals in advance during a brief telephone conversation with the trainer. All your goals are then addressed. The trainer teaches in a very fun way, with structure without imposing too much. Input from participants is highly appreciated. Presenting in front of the camera seems scary at first, but it is very instructive and ultimately a lot of fun. In addition to being very instructive and very applicable, I also found the days very enjoyable. It's a shame that it's over. Fortunately, I still have my teaching material with notes and the important things are still well in my head." - Rating: 8.4

G.T. Huitema, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations (BZK) - Interview techniques

"I followed this training with a lot of pleasure. The trainer had prepared well by calling in advance and asking about my personal learning goals. These were then tailor-made for me in the programme. I learned a lot and received well-crafted course material. Highly recommended!" - Rating: 9.0

M. van der Burght, Municipality of Arnhem - Interview techniques

"Training is tailored as much as possible and made practical with many role plays. I was able to get to work immediately!" - Rating: 7.8

E. van de Wijn, Hoteschool Amersfoort - Conversation techniques

"I found the training to be good and, above all, useful and informative. Despite the fact that I am not feeling well at the moment and that I am not myself, I learned a lot from it. One usually looks up to role-playing, but once you get over the 'fear', it is very fun and instructive to do a role-play." - Rating: 9.0

M. Mulder, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations (BZK) FMHaaglanden - Interview techniques

"Interesting to reflect on situations at work and reflect on your behaviour and functioning in a professional environment." - Rating: 7.6

A.G. Weisz, City of Amsterdam City Centre - Interview techniques

"The content is instructive but the trainer makes it useful. With the teaching material alone, you would certainly gain the knowledge, but you need guidance in order to apply it. Instructive material that really helps you find out how you come across and want to come across. Our trainer was great and listened to us to address our concerns."

- Interview techniques

"It is a training course that is tailor-made and very applicable to practice!" - Rating: 8.4

D. Kolstee, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations (BZK) FMHaaglanden - Interview techniques

"The course material was alternated with practical exercises in a professional manner. The trainer conveyed the subject matter to the participants in a professional and enthusiastic manner. Due to the small number of participants, everyone was given ample opportunity. A training that is to be recommended." - Rating: 8.4

J. Roosenboom, Ministry of Economic Affairs (EZ) - Interview techniques

"A fun and especially educational training that helps you improve your communication. Making you aware of what you are saying and processing (in the right way) the communication you receive. Definitely a must for anyone who wants to develop themselves." - Rating: 9.0

J. Klaver, UwHuisveilig Advies B.V. - Interview techniques

"Nice and practical training, exactly tailored to the needs. Practising conversations was very useful. The pleasant and committed trainer created a personal atmosphere, which made all participants feel free to actively participate and ask questions. Furthermore, there were plenty of tips and tricks that we could apply immediately. In short, a fun and educational day!"

- Interview techniques

"The training covers an extensive amount of theory without being boring! Practical examples and experiences of others challenge you to immediately put what you have learned into practice. After following this course you will be a better equipped and more aware interlocutor and your advisory skills will be up to date again." - Rating: 8.6

I. van Riet, FM Haaglanden - Interview techniques

"A to the point training in which the differences between the participants in terms of conducting conversations were very well taken into account. Each participant achieved their own insights and learning goals, with the sharing of insights also proving interesting for everyone. A strong point I found was the use of models, with the participants being asked to provide the content. This worked much better than presenting a model with the often abstract concepts, which then have to be put into practice in an exercise." - Rating: 8.0

R. Stap, Rhineland Water Board - Conversation techniques

"The training was well structured and varied. The alternation between theory and practical, realistic exercises was so well tuned that there were no dull moments and it remained constantly fascinating. The training was given by a professional and knowledgeable teacher who did not preach and dared to make herself vulnerable, without losing control. She gave very constructive criticism so that the motivation remained good. The use of audio support, models and game situations is very good. All in all, the training is very good for becoming aware of exactly what you do in conversations and what you could develop or change in these. You quickly become aware of your strong and weak points." - Rating: 8.4

L. Buitenhuis - Interview techniques

"Excellent training that not only increases your personal skills, but also the team spirit of you and your colleagues among each other." - Rating: 8.2

J. Beijersbergen, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations FMHaaglanden - Interview techniques

"I did the training on 15 and 29 March 2012 in The Hague. Very good training with lots of exercises. The material was elaborated in a good and understandable way. It was an enjoyable training. I learned a lot from it. The accessibility of the location was also very good. I have already planned the next training course." - Rating: 9.2

R. Landman, ECT - Interview techniques

"In the past few months, we have been inundated with training and courses at FMHaaglanden. It took me a long time to recharge for this course. Once I was there, I was carried away by the trainers' enthusiasm, which made it an instructive course and this one also flew by quickly!" - Rating: 9.0

G. v/d Kamp, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations FMHaaglanden - Interview techniques

"This was a training that stays with you. After a bit of theory, the participant immediately goes into practice by working with their own examples. There is a lot of room for getting and giving feedback and the trainer makes sure this happens in a respectful and safe way. A good basis for anyone who wants to explore their strengths and weaknesses in the field of conversation skills! - Rating: 8.6

D.M.B. Metaal, St. Lijn1 Haaglanden - Interview techniques

"The training increases self-confidence. You learn to conduct a conversation in the best possible way, you can also conclude difficult conversations in a good way." - Rating: 9.2

K. Schipper, Intermaris - Conversation techniques

"The training was very doable. In two days, many items were covered, taking into account the needs of the group. Because of the small size of the group, everyone was given a chance to be heard. Super-enthusiastic, inspiring and also very versatile trainer. Good mix between theory and exercises. She can explain well and makes good use of appealing examples. All available options were used (the room was filled with sheets). She is handy with video and uses this convincingly to hold up a mirror to the participants." - Rating: 9.2

K. van Wieren - Conversation techniques

"This training was very instructive. The lines of communication with Learnit are very short, excellent." - Rating: 8.0

P. Wolf, ABN Amro Bank Insurance - Interview techniques

"Practising the group discussions gives good insight into what works and what are practical pitfalls." - Rating: 8.8

D. van Haard, Municipality of Arnhem - Interview techniques

"Plenty of attention and space to learn (from each other) and to get new insights. Very nice to go home after the training with sufficient handles." - Rating: 8.0

A. Nijboer, Municipality of Ooststellingwerf - Conversation techniques

"An organisation that wants to teach a way of communicating in an open and honest way without damaging people. I experienced it as very pleasant." - Rating: 8.0

A. van der Hilt, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations (BZK) FMHaaglanden - Interview techniques

"Good atmosphere, good value for money, learned a lot. Theory is clear, role plays and exercises fit in well with that. You gain many new insights in a playful way. I am much more aware of communication and I apply the techniques! - Rating: 8.4

N. Middelhoven - Interview techniques

"The Rose of Leary, very useful! If you understand that, communicating is a lot easier." - Rating: 9.2

S.J.G. Bieman, Municipality of Alkmaar - Interview techniques

"In a short time, you get a good picture of what you yourself can apply in conversations with residents or agencies. The trainer is brought in a "playful" way and remains fascinating. Working with actor(s) gives an even better insight." - Rating: 8.8

L. Stokroos, Woonstad Rotterdam - Interview techniques

"Very professional organisation and top trainers with good experience and explanations." - Rating: 9.4

D. Dekker, Woonstad Rotterdam - Conversation techniques

"Very instructive, I was able to learn a lot that I can immediately practice with in practice and make my own. There was a lot of varied teaching material. The reference work, the book and the folder with information is also nice to look back at. My learning goals were well addressed during the training, which made the training very useful for me. The training was varied, so that I could keep my attention and was able to actively participate. Everyone felt safe enough to dare to learn." - Rating: 9.2

R. van Cauteren, UwHuisVeilig Advies B.V. - Interview techniques

"Highly recommended for everyone."

- Interview techniques

"Initially, I had signed up for another training (Interview techniques). During a conversation with Learnit Training it became clear that this training would also suit my wishes. They had correctly estimated this. We were with a small group and therefore the training could be tailored to our learning goals. The trainer was very flexible; she moved along with our answers to questions. You felt that she wanted to help you move forward. I think she has a lot of knowledge and expertise. I enjoyed her, she inspired me." - Rating: 10.0

A. Wösten, Icare Foundation - Conversation techniques

"Good impression of the trainer and organisation. During the training you get good tips to apply in practice." - Rating: 8.3

Friso Bakker, Carrefour Welfare Group Noordoostpolder - Conversation techniques

"The training was practically oriented so that you could immediately try out what you had learned in practice. Feedback on the second day was also very pleasant." - Rating: 8.8

C. Cazier, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations (BZK) FMHaaglanden - Interview techniques

"Training was focused on practice this made the training very good. Everything else was well organised and I can definitely recommend this training!" - Rating: 8.8

Ruud Tummers, T-Mobile Netherlands B.V. - Conversation techniques

"Good preparation, good content, is well delivered." - Rating: 8.2

R. Koops, Ministry of the Interior and Kingdom Relations (BZK) FMHaaglanden - Interview techniques

"Very nice training, very informative. I was lucky to come in a nice group, that does make a difference." - Rating: 7.8

E. Lammertink, Vestia - Interview techniques

"Very professional and practice-oriented. Tailor-made fits in with your daily work." - Rating: 9.6

B. Görlitz, Woonstad Rotterdam - Interview techniques

"Inspiring training with a lot of personal input so that you can put it into practice. - Rating: 7.5

S. Suir, City of Amsterdam City Centre - Interview techniques

"Professional and customer-oriented! - Rating: 8.2

A. de Zwart, Hoi Pippeloi - Conversation techniques

"You learn how to deal with conversation in a very relaxed way. There is a lot of practice with the many types of conversations there are. Because the exercises are filmed, you get a good idea of what goes well and what goes less well when it is shown again later." - Rating: 7.6

C. Koorevaar, Du Pont de Nemours - Conversation techniques

"Lively course focused on the participant and their needs, with a lot of practice which makes the day fly by and you learn a lot without feeling like you are cramming." - Rating: 7.7

Birgitta Blank, Stichting Het Rijnlands Lyceum, European School The Hague - Conversation techniques

"Customised training aimed at providing practical tools for various communication issues." - Rating: 7.6

L. van Waardenburg, Woonstad Rotterdam - Conversation techniques